Avoiding Rejection When "Getting Physical"  

MOST MEN ARE DEATHLY AFRAID...

 Most men don't know the FIRST THING about how
to take things to a "physical" level with a woman.

 Here's why:

 Let's say you've been out on a date with a
woman, and you're now back at your place, having
an enjoyable conversation.

 You look over at her.

 She looks back at you.

 You want to kiss her.

 She KNOWS that you want to kiss her.

 You know that she is the one with all the
power.

 If you try to kiss her, and she pulls away, she
might reject you forever.

 If you DON'T try to kiss her, maybe it will
happen later, or maybe she'll even kiss you...

 The risk of being rejected FOREVER is so
powerful and creates such fear that you decide to
just "walk away" from the situation and hope
something happens later.

 Or, let's say that you've been out with a woman
a few times, and you have just kissed her for the
first time.

 You know that she's enjoying it.

 She knows that you want her.

 You'd REALLY like to do more, but you're afraid
that if you try, you'll be seen as "moving too
fast", or even worse... a "pushy pervert".

 You hate the idea of being rejected after
you've invested all that time and come so far...

 So you decide to stop and hope that maybe
things will "heat back up" later.

WE'VE ALL BEEN THERE

 If you really stop and think about it, the
reason why you run into problems in situations
like these is that:

1) You don't understand exactly what turns women
on.

2) You are afraid of rejection.

3) You don't know what SHE'S thinking, so you
hesitate.

 I honestly believe that most men CAUSE their
own problems and resistance when it comes to
"getting physical" with a woman.

 Yes, you read that right... MEN are the ones
who CAUSE the problems.

 It's not the woman!

 It's the fact that you don't understand the
situation, what's REALLY going on, and how to
proceed.

WHAT WOMEN WANT... BUT WILL NEVER TELL YOU

 Here's a little secret that most women will
NEVER share with you...

 SHE KNOWS WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND.

 Women can tell what you're thinking!

 If you want to kiss her, but you're nervous
about it, SHE KNOWS.

 If you're kissing her and want to do more...
SHE KNOWS.

 And here's the KICKER:

 If you're afraid of her rejecting you, SHE
KNOWS.

 Really.

 Women are approximately TEN TIMES as good at
men when it comes to reading and interpreting
subtle body language, and THEY KNOW WHAT WE'RE
THINKING.

 Let me correct myself... slightly.

 They know what MOST men are thinking.

 If you understand the dynamics of how and why
women become sexually aroused, then EVERYTHING
CHANGES.

 I'll also mention... if you'd like to get an
education on how to increase your inner "Sexual
Confidence"... then you should check out my
program called "Power Sexuality". Inside this
program, I will reveal to you the "sexual secrets"
that most men will simply never know. You can
check it out here:

Now, let's talk a little bit about the topics
of RESISTANCE and REJECTION.

  Here's an interesting thought:

  In their book "Sexual Interactions", Albert and
Elizabeth Allgeier mention that in one study
almost 40% of women reported refusing sexual
intercourse when they actually WANTED it. They
call this "The token no".

  So, what's going on here?

  Hold on... one more thing before I discuss
this, I want to point out that this DOESN'T mean
that a woman wants a man to force himself on her.
NEVER force a woman to do anything!

  Here's what's going on...

  Women enjoy ANTICIPATION.

  Anticipation leads to sexual arousal.

  Write that down...

  ...on your forehead.

  You need to remember that women like the idea
of WANTING and EXPECTING what's going to happen.

  The reason why a lot of women say that they
don't want to sleep with men even when they do is
because the man doesn't GET IT.

  Men act like they would enjoy it if a woman
just took off her clothes and said, "Let's do it."

  Women act like they want a man to chase them
around all night... and then MAYBE do it. Maybe.

  So if you want her to feel more turned on, and
to get less "resistance", then USE ANTICIPATION.

  I have a technique that I teach that's called
"Two steps forward, one step back".

  This is a way to INCREASE a woman's sexual
arousal and AMPLIFY the ATTRACTION that's already
present in the situation.

  Here's how it works:

  Let's say that you're talking to a woman at
your place, and you start holding her hand.

  After a few minutes, take your hand back and
STOP.

  Lean back.

  Keep talking.

  A few minutes later, reach over and take her
hand again... and keep talking.

  Then, lean over and kiss her (use "The Kiss
Test" as described at my website and in my "Double
Your Dating" ebook).

  After you've kissed her, STOP.

  Lean back again.

  Keep talking.

  A few minutes later, reach over and kiss her
again.

  This time, kiss her for a little longer.

  Kiss her a little deeper.

  Then stop.

  Lean back.

  Smile.

  ARE YOU WITH ME?

  When you use this technique, you will be
absolutely STUNNED at the results.

  First of all, it completely changes the
situation.

Instead of a woman RESISTING you, she'll be
MUCH more likely to try to get you to DO MORE.

She'll very likely be confused.

She'll be thinking to herself, "What's going on
here? Most guys try to push themselves on me, or
they don't do anything at all. This guy seems like
he's so in control of himself. And I keep getting
more turned on. Maybe I should tell him that we're
not going to sleep together tonight. But this is
so great..."

And the best part of this technique is that
IT'S WHAT WOMEN WANT YOU TO DO!

Of course, they'd never TELL you this. And even
if a woman COULD explain it, she wouldn't WANT to
tell you. Women want men who ALREADY GET IT.

I want to mention a couple of more important
things.

First, if you want to even GET to the point
where it's time to hold a woman's hand, kiss her,
and get even more physical, then you MUST
understand how ATTRACTION works, and how to make
women feel that powerful emotion.

If you don't, then knowing all the fancy
techniques in the world won't help you.

It's also VERY useful to understand what to do
AFTER you've kissed a woman... the details of how
to do OTHER, more INTIMATE things.

Where can you learn this stuff?

I recommend my online eBook and my Advanced
Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program.

When you download the ebook, "Double Your
Dating", you'll also get three free bonus
booklets. One of them is titled "Sex Secrets". In
that report, I explain in greater detail how to go
from one step to the next with a woman, from the
first kiss all the way to the bedroom.

In my Advanced Dating Techniques program, I
give an incredibly detailed explanation of how and
why women feel ATTRACTION for men. It's taken me
literally YEARS to figure all of this stuff out,
and you can learn it ALL in a matter of 12 hours
of listening.

It will blow your mind, and get you a LOT of
dates.

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